Banish yes and no questions from interviews and reference checks

Could you carry on a conversation for three minutes without using Yes or No?

Responding to this challenge was the essence of the Yes/No Game played by cruise passengers on the Diamond Princess, this past fall.

The game was also a reminder to anyone who is hiring to avoid asking questions during interviews or reference checks that could be answered with a single word.

The cruise director who hosted the game in one of the ship’s lounges invited participants to engage in a three-minute conversation with her, without uttering either word.

The prize: a bottle of wine. And for competitors who failed: an origami crane. Most left the lounge with a paper crane in hand.

Participants tried to avoid the two prohibited words but most fell short. A typical conversation went something like this:

Host: Where are you from?

Participant: Toronto.

Host: Is that a nice place to live?

Participant: Yes. 

Game over! In less than five seconds.

Interviews can go wrong when interviewers ask questions that can be answered with just one word:

“Do you feel teamwork is important?”

“Was ABC Corporation a good place to work?”

“If we were to hire you, how long would you stay?”

And during reference checks: 

“Would you describe Andy as well-organized?”

“Did Anita work well with her colleagues?”

“Would you hire Joe again?”

There are two reasons the above questions don’t work.

First, where do you go next if the candidate replies, “Yes”? 

Even respected media interviewers can fall into the Yes/No question trap, as occurred when MSNBC host Rachel Maddow was interviewing U.S. Senator Elizabeth Warren. 

Warren simply answered, “Yes” when asked if she would accept an invitation to be Joe Biden’s 2020 running mate, followed by silence when the senator didn’t add to her response.

Finally, Maddow was able to escape this awkward moment in a way not available during hiring interviews. She went to a commercial.

The second problem is that all these questions ask for the candidate or reference’s opinion, when you should be using interviews and reference checks to gather evidence. Specifically, you’re looking for evidence about the candidate’s past performance that will enable you to form an opinion about whether the candidate is the right person to hire, or not.

Some of those questions can be fixed, but others are not worth asking in any form.

Asked if teamwork is important, most candidates will assume that if you are asking, teamwork must be important to you. Hence, the “correct” answer is “Yes.” Teamwork is important to them.

Better to ask candidates to “describe a time when you were a member of a work team” or to ask references to “provide an example of a time when Anita collaborated with a colleague or colleagues.”

 By asking candidates for their assessment of their previous employers or how long they would commit to stay if hired, you’ll get answers unlikely to yield any information that will be useful to you when deciding which candidate is the right person to hire.

Finally, there is that question about whether the reference would rehire this individual. There is no reason to ask that question.

References are strangers to you, carefully selected and coached by candidates to portray them in the best light. Even if references provide their honest assessment of the individual’s performance, you don’t know the criteria they use to judge employees. Hiring decisions should not be based on the opinion of strangers.

These is a question that requires only a one-word response to keep in mind when making hiring decisions:

Whose is the only opinion that matters when hiring for your organization?

Answer: YOURS!

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How to ask questions during interviews and reference checks is one of the topics covered during Interview Right to Hire Right workshops. Please contact Nelson (nmscott@telus.net or 780-232-3828) to schedule an Interview Right to Hire Right workshop for your leadership team or to learn more about this training.

Just 15 minutes a day for staff recognition

You believe in the power of staff recognition. You want to acknowledge people for how they contribute and for what they achieve. But when?

How can you find time in your busy schedule to recognize staff? Your days are already filled with tasks that require your attention.

I understand this challenge. I face a different, but similar one. Where do I find time to market my new book, Thanks, Again! More Simple, Inexpensive Ways for Busy Leaders to Recognize Staff?

With this question in mind, I was attracted to a webinar that promised that book marketing could be done in just 15 minutes a day. 

As I listened to Stephanie Feger of emPower PR Group, I realized that the concept she was espousing could be adapted to become a solution for those struggling to find time to recognize staff.

Schedule 15 minutes every day to recognize staff. Use this time to:

  • Drop by a staff member’s workstation to deliver your message of appreciation in person. Spend a few minutes asking questions and allowing them to talk about what they do.
  • Write a note (or two) to say thank you or congratulations to an individual for how they contributed or for what they achieved.
  • Send an email or text to thank someone for what they do. Be specific when describing what they do that you appreciate.
  • Meet a staff member for coffee. Let them know something you appreciate about how they do their job. Leave time for them to talk about their work. Do they have suggestions of ways to improve the workplace?
  • Use your phone to record a video message expressing appreciation. Then text it to them.
  • Write words of appreciation on sticky notes and attach them to staff members’ computers or desks.
  • Express your appreciation with a social media post.
  • Leave a recommendation on a staff member’s LinkedIn page.
  • Read an article or chapter in a book about staff recognition to discover other quick ways to let staff know you appreciate them for what they do.

Whether it’s 15 minutes a day to market a book or to recognize staff, it needs to become a habit.

“Making Staff Recognition a Habit,” is one of the 30 themes (chapters) in Thanks, Again! There are three tips from this theme that I plan to adapt to make 15-minute marketing a daily habit which could also be applied to help create your 15-minute staff recognition habit:

  • Add “spend 15 minutes recognizing staff ” to you daily to-do list. At the top of the page!
  • Find an “accountability partner.” It could be a colleague, your boss or your administrative assistant. Explain what you are trying to do and ask them to help you stay the course by checking in with you regularly.
  • Keep score and make it visible. This could be as simple as check marks on a wall calendar. Record every day you spend 15 minutes recognizing staff.

Consider adopting these suggestions or any of the other 15 from Thank, Again! to make 15-minute staff recognition a daily habit.

I hope my 15-minute book-marketing habit will mean more book sales and I hope that your 15 minutes a day for staff recognition will make a difference when it comes to engaging and retaining your staff.

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Thanks, Again! Is available at Audreys Books, 10702 Jasper Ave., Edmonton (and on their website) and online from Amazon, Indigo, FriesenPress Bookstore, Barnes & Noble and from the Apple Books app.

The emotional bounce from holiday cards can continue all year long 

Did you receive cards this holiday season? Not those cards that came from a life insurance agent or from a local politician, but greetings you received from friends, neighbours or family?

They were seasonal messages in hand-addressed envelopes that you discovered among bills and flyers in your mailbox. Perhaps they bore a stamp issued by the post office to celebrate the season.

How did you feel when you received those greetings? Was that feeling enhanced when you discovered a handwritten message inside the envelope?

Related Article: Why a friend’s Christmas letter was so disappointing

You don’t have to wait until the holidays next year to replicate this positive experience for members of your staff. Birthday cards will do it and you can send thank-you cards anytime.

The next time you consider whether to send a thank-you card to acknowledge a staff member for their contribution, remember how it felt to receive holiday greetings. How might staff members feel when they receive your handwritten message?

I don’t know individual members of your staff but based on what I have heard from participants in my workshops and convention presentations, I can speculate a bit on how they might feel.

Many participants in my programs tell me that receiving a thank-you card “makes my day.”

Few will just glance at your message before discarding it. Many people save thank-you cards. They display them where they and others will see them. They reread them, particularly on days when things have not gone well.

I have had people email to thank me for sending them a thank-you note. One person sent me a photograph of my card sitting on her desk.

With holiday, birthday and thank-you cards, you are creating an emotional connection between staff members and the organization, their work and you.

Here are a few tips from my new book, Thanks, Again! More Simple, Inexpensive Ways Leaders Can Recognize Staff on making thank-you cards your number one staff recognition tool:

  • Keep a supply of thank-you notes where you will notice them frequently. Whenever you see them, ask yourself, “Who deserves to be thanked?”
  • Convert waiting time into recognition time. Carry a supply of thank-you notes in your briefcase. Whenever you have a few minutes, such as when waiting for an appointment, when you’re on an airplane, or when you are waiting for a meeting to begin, use the time to write notes to staff members who deserve to be recognized.
  • Double the impact of the positive, face-to-face feedback you provide by following up with a brief, handwritten note.
  • Any other colour of ink is better than black or red when writing thank-you notes. Why? Black makes your message look like one of hundreds that came from a photocopier. And we all remember what red meant when we were in school, don’t we?
  • Mail thank-you notes to the recipients’ homes. In addition to staff members seeing your words of appreciation, their families will notice. Your hand-addressed envelope will stand out among all the bills and flyers. There will be questions when the staff member arrives home. “What’s this about? Why did your boss send you a thank-you note?” It becomes an opportunity for recipients to share stories of their on-the-job success with family members.

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Thanks, Again! Is available at Audreys Books, 10702 Jasper Ave., Edmonton (and on their website) and online from Amazon, Indigo, FriesenPress Bookstore, Barnes & Noble and from the Apple Books app.

Making recognition memorable

During a recent conversation, a now-retired teacher told me that she could not recall ever having been recognized.

I’m certain that if I were able to poll the principals she worked with over her decades-long career, they would assure me that, in fact, each felt they had recognized her several times.

Why then, does she not remember being recognized?

Maybe, it’s because of how she was recognized. The recognition may not have been memorable if it was not Appropriate. Recognition that is Appropriate respects the recipient’s recognition preferences and reflects their interests.

Did her principals understand that recognition is most meaningful (and memorable) to recipients when it is Appropriate?

Appropriate recognition demonstrates that the person providing the recognition values the recipient as an individual, as well as appreciates them for what they do. The manager or supervisor cares enough to learn what is important to each staff member.

“I don’t think that any of my principals knew me well enough to know the best way to recognize me,” the retired teacher said.

Recognition that reflects what’s important to the recipient is more memorable—for the right reasons.

Unfortunately, recognition can also be memorable for the wrong reasons.

Being forced to come to the front of a crowded room to be acknowledged can be a painful experience for staff members who would much prefer to be recognized in private. Introverts will skip formal recognition events to avoid this type of public acknowledgement.

Another way recognition can create negative memories is by making the recipient the target of inappropriate humour. When recognition becomes an impromptu roast people can be embarrassed, creating an experience that’s memorable for its discomfort.

Recognition can also go wrong at meetings when staff members are invited to acknowledge their peers for their assistance and support. When this goes on too long it becomes obvious that some people have received no recognition from their colleagues. The situation becomes even worse when the chair calls attention to who has not been recognized and pleads for someone to come up with some reason—however minor—to recognize the forgotten one.

It’s an experience that that individual won’t soon forget.

When the topic of recognition comes up, no one should ever be able to say they can’t remember being recognized. To avoid this unfortunate situation people should be recognized frequently and recognized in Appropriate ways. 

Staff members who recall receiving Appropriate recognition will be more engaged and productive and less likely to leave. People stay where they feel valued as individuals and appreciated for what they do.

Create recognition experiences that staff members will remember for the right reasons. Learn what you can about the people with whom you work and use this information to make recognition Appropriate.

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Looking to make recognition Appropriate? Check out Thanks, Again! More Simple, Inexpensive Ways for Busy Leaders to Recognize Staff (Theme #3: GREAT Staff Recognition: 5 Pieces that Make the Picture of Appreciation and Gratitude Complete—Appropriate: Personalizing Staff Recognition and Theme #9: Discovering the Most Appropriate Ways to Recognize Staff).

Thanks, Again! Is available at Audreys Books, 10702 Jasper Ave., Edmonton (and on their website) and online from Amazon, Indigo, FriesenPress Bookstore, Barnes & Noble and from the Apple Books app.