The emotional bounce from holiday cards can continue all year long 

Did you receive cards this holiday season? Not those cards that came from a life insurance agent or from a local politician, but greetings you received from friends, neighbours or family?

They were seasonal messages in hand-addressed envelopes that you discovered among bills and flyers in your mailbox. Perhaps they bore a stamp issued by the post office to celebrate the season.

How did you feel when you received those greetings? Was that feeling enhanced when you discovered a handwritten message inside the envelope?

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You don’t have to wait until the holidays next year to replicate this positive experience for members of your staff. Birthday cards will do it and you can send thank-you cards anytime.

The next time you consider whether to send a thank-you card to acknowledge a staff member for their contribution, remember how it felt to receive holiday greetings. How might staff members feel when they receive your handwritten message?

I don’t know individual members of your staff but based on what I have heard from participants in my workshops and convention presentations, I can speculate a bit on how they might feel.

Many participants in my programs tell me that receiving a thank-you card “makes my day.”

Few will just glance at your message before discarding it. Many people save thank-you cards. They display them where they and others will see them. They reread them, particularly on days when things have not gone well.

I have had people email to thank me for sending them a thank-you note. One person sent me a photograph of my card sitting on her desk.

With holiday, birthday and thank-you cards, you are creating an emotional connection between staff members and the organization, their work and you.

Here are a few tips from my new book, Thanks, Again! More Simple, Inexpensive Ways Leaders Can Recognize Staff on making thank-you cards your number one staff recognition tool:

  • Keep a supply of thank-you notes where you will notice them frequently. Whenever you see them, ask yourself, “Who deserves to be thanked?”
  • Convert waiting time into recognition time. Carry a supply of thank-you notes in your briefcase. Whenever you have a few minutes, such as when waiting for an appointment, when you’re on an airplane, or when you are waiting for a meeting to begin, use the time to write notes to staff members who deserve to be recognized.
  • Double the impact of the positive, face-to-face feedback you provide by following up with a brief, handwritten note.
  • Any other colour of ink is better than black or red when writing thank-you notes. Why? Black makes your message look like one of hundreds that came from a photocopier. And we all remember what red meant when we were in school, don’t we?
  • Mail thank-you notes to the recipients’ homes. In addition to staff members seeing your words of appreciation, their families will notice. Your hand-addressed envelope will stand out among all the bills and flyers. There will be questions when the staff member arrives home. “What’s this about? Why did your boss send you a thank-you note?” It becomes an opportunity for recipients to share stories of their on-the-job success with family members.

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Thanks, Again! Is available at Audreys Books, 10702 Jasper Ave., Edmonton (and on their website) and online from Amazon, Indigo, FriesenPress Bookstore, Barnes & Noble and from the Apple Books app.

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